10 Steps on How to Feel Sexy and Desirable

by: Joan Alota

Sexy And Desirable Woman's Face

“Girls just want to have fun,” Cyndi Lauper infamously sang. Though that isn’t entirely correct, they also want to feel sexy and desirable. How do you feel that way all the time with little effort? Here are some tips that will make you feel sexy and feel good about yourself at the same time.

1. Embrace yourself

There’s nothing more sexy than loving and accepting yourself. Regardless of your size and shape, you are an amazing person. It’s hard to feel sexy if you feel awkward and insecure about your looks all the time. If you think you have something that you don't like about yourself physically, learn how to love, cherish and respect yourself. We are all different and what makes us unique and beautiful is our imperfections. You are beautiful the way you are, embrace it, for our imperfections give an accent to our sexiness and beauty.

2. Look Fresh and Smell Great

If you think you smell bad, you probably do. The best thing to do is to jump into the shower and use your favorite body wash to make you feel and smell clean again. Taking showers and pampering yourself a little bit goes a long way towards building up your confidence. Wearing deodorant and your favorite perfume will also help in making you feel special and great about yourself.

Our top 5 perfumes of 2013 for women that guys love:

5. Euphoria by Calvin Klein for Women
4. Shi by Alfred Sung, Eau De Parfum Spray
3. Women's Gucci Premiere Natural Spray
2. I Love I Love BY Moschino
1. Lovely by Sarah Jessica Parker

3. Dress to Impress

Trying to squeeze into that pair of skinny jeans that you have kept in your drawer for years will not make you feel sexy, you should try wearing something that fits you comfortably. The same goes for the shirt that is too small for your body. Wearing something that you know doesn’t fit will not make you look sexy, it will only make you feel awkward and uncomfortable. Wearing clothes that fit you is one of the best things you can do to boost your confidence and help you look like the sexy lady that you are.

4. Wear Sexy Underwear

Wearing sexy underwear makes you feel sexy and attractive. Think about the last time that you wore lacy underwear and how you walked with an extra spring in your step. Remember how you were a little flirtier with your guy than you normally are, that was partly because you felt sexy with that lacy underwear. If you want to have that sexy feeling back again try wearing sexy underwear, they will help you remember how sexy you really are.

5. Show-off Your Best Asset

One of the ways that you can show off your breasts is by wearing a bra that lifts them up and fills out your (form fitting) shirt. Another way to feel sexy is to buy underwear that you would want your guy to see you in, like a thong or lacy panties. This helps you feel sexual, which increases that feeling of being sexy within you.

If you don’t feel like your boobs are your best asset, then think about what is. If it’s your legs, wear shorts or a skirt that shows them off. Men respond to the legs as well as they do boobs, sometimes more so because your stems leave a lot to the imagination.

If for some reason you don’t feel like your legs or your boobs are your best asset, find something that is. If it is your butt, wear bottoms that are tight and show it off. Whatever your best asset is, make sure you use it to your advantage.

6. Take Care of Your Crowning Glory

This is your shining glory and it never fails to captivate men. Don’t let a bad hair day ruin your chances of having a good first impression. A healthy and well-kept hair not only adds sex appeal, but it also indicates that you are a responsible and attentive woman.

7. Exercise

When you exercise, chemicals which are called endorphins are released from our brains that enable us to feel a sense of well being. These chemicals can also give us a boost of confidence when we need it the most. Not only will exercise help you lose weight and feel good about yourself, it will also help you attract the opposite sex by having more confidence than usual. Remember, there is nothing sexier to a guy than a girl oozing with confidence.

Also if you are planning to lose some weights, you should try Jillian Michaels videos, it has help many people lose up to 20 pounds in 30 days. One of our contributor who is a physical therapist recommended her. We can definitely say Jillian is an excellent trainer.

8. Flirting With Guys

Have fun and flirt with the guys. Keep it subtle yet playful. Be in control at all times while unleashing the seductive temptress that you are. This will not only bring back your confidence but will also show how sexy and attractive you are to the guys.

9. Say You are Sexy

If you ask any psychologist, most of them will tell you that the #1 sexiest attribute that a person can have in seducing someone will always be confidence. It is best to always remove self-doubt. True, we are all different in many ways, but our differences make us unique, and uniqueness in itself is beautiful.

You are beautiful the way you are physically, but it is your mind that you must convince that you are beautiful, sexy, and desirable. The way we think about ourselves is the real driver in determining our ability to attract the opposite sex. You are what you think, so tell yourself how beautiful and sexy you are each and every day.

10. Enjoy the Attention

Party with friends, go to the bar, do sports, and hang out at the beach or at the pool. Now that you are feeling sexy and confident by doing the things above, there is no need for you to hide your sexiness. Let the men feast their eyes on you. There's no shame that all women secretly wanted to be desired. Now have fun and enjoy the compliments.

Feeling sexy and desirable is more than just your guy telling you that you are, it is a feeling that you have deep down inside of you. These tips will help you unleash the confidence that you need to keep your head held up high. Be one of the girls that just want to have fun.

by: Joan Alota
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